Callie
This book does a wonderful job teaching the challenging, yet necessary task of potty training to young kids through an intuitive and natural method. As I was reading it, I had wished I had had it for my older children. It would have made potty training SO much easier (it took us an entire year for my first, not a few days). The author provides evidence-based teaching methods, helpful illustrations, and thorough explanations as the "why" behind her particular method. There are great tips and tricks to getting the job done, coupled with reminders about not to lose focus on the most important issues (which is the first thing gone over in the book) and why as parents we are trying hard to do a good job with this task (because we love our kids). It is practical advice given in a loving format.
Emily Payne
Sophie
I love that this potty training book for parents focuses on training the parent to train the child. It makes toilet training make sense.
The charts, info and pictures simplify the process and take away the intimidation factor usually associated with toilet training. No stone left unturned in this book!
Michelle
Sam
In Depth! This book was so in depth with tons of images and charts to really exceeded my expectations in a book. The information was in depth and well researched.
Nicole
Chevy 17
Very helpful, well written book! This is a very well written guide on how to potty train your child the right way. The author uses common sense strategies that I didn’t think of. Tasking your child to keep their underwear clean, instead of just telling them to use the potty is brilliant! The charts and illustrations are also really helpful. I highly recommend this book!
Lui
You would think that potty training a kid would be easy. But if you’ve ever tried transitioning a kid from diapers to undies, you learn the cold hard truth fast—you need to know what you’re doing.
I was curious when I picked up this book. I’ve worked with young people for years. Can potty training be taught just like any kind of skill? Yes and No.
The author does a brilliant job of breaking down the parts of this process, and it is indeed a process, all the steps that are involved in teaching your child how to use the toilet. They have to understand and be motivated to do it. They have to know how to do it. They have to practice the skill. Her suggestions are priceless, including the treats you should offer to let your child know they did a good job and to motivate them to continue to do it again and again.
But what’s most important is the attitude of the parents. Potty training is an emotional time for the parents. It requires patience and a certain realization. She suggests that the parents be the coaches, the helpful coaches who are there to praise and never humiliate, there to be helpful but in the sense that you want the child to become self-sufficient. Be clear on your goal.
I love the fact that she suggests modeling the process by using a giant teddy bear so the child can understand what is expected. She even includes a section that deals with how to overcome “reluctant learners”, kids who “backslide,” etc. In other words, she doesn’t expect the process will always go smoothly.
Kate
Initially we started with a different program. After a few days i realized I had some problems with the model we were using and it wasn’t quite working for my son. Out of desperation (and after recommendation from a friend)I got this book read it in one day (it’s a SUPER easy read). Because of this book… potty training has hands down been the easiest thing I’ve had to do in parenting so far. Here are just a few things I like.
1. I LOVE the format of this book. She explains the method clear and concise without too much fluff, which makes it a super easy read. She gives tons of great examples of what to say/do in different situations.
2. I love that there is no shaming or scare tactics used in this book. I read a few other books and felt shamed for waiting until my kid was almost 3 to potty train. I also felt the other books were too hands off and put alllll responsibility on the child, but they are kids… we should party with them when they do well, reward them, meet them where they are at and provide support. I felt like this book accomplishes that.
3. The charts! I didn’t realize how much of a visual learner my son was until I showed him the chart. He LOVES it. We hung them up next to all the potty’s in our house and in his play area. He points at the step that he is on as he goes and loves to review it all on his own.
4. I like that you really don’t need a potty chair. However I had already gotten one and my son loved it, so we started with the potty chair and the conveniently “lost” the potty after a few weeks. It made going to public restrooms etc less stressful because he knows how to go on a big potty no problem.
Alexis
A game changer in the realm of parenting literatrure. This book is not just a guide; it's a supportive companion that empowers parents to navigate this developmental milestone with confidence and success.
Peter
I read this before potty training my oldest. It is a quick read that took me from "I have no clue what I'm doing and so intimidated" to having a framework and a plan. I especially loved the checklist of things to prepare (an extra mattress pad may seem obvious, for example, but I wouldn't have thought about anything other than getting underwear).
I also like how the author explains the "why" behind her methods, because it made it easier to adapt as needed for different kids with different needs and helped me be intentional in my own decisions.
Anonymous Amazon customer
Initially we started with a different program. After a few days i realized I had some problems with the model we were using and it wasn’t quite working for my son. Out of desperation (and after recommendation from a friend)I got this book read it in one day (it’s a SUPER easy read). Because of this book… potty training has hands down been the easiest thing I’ve had to do in parenting so far. Here are just a few things I like.
1. I LOVE the format of this book. She explains the method clear and concise without too much fluff, which makes it a super easy read. She gives tons of great examples of what to say/do in different situations.
2. I love that there is no shaming or scare tactics used in this book. I read a few other books and felt shamed for waiting until my kid was almost 3 to potty train. I also felt the other books were too hands off and put alllll responsibility on the child, but they are kids… we should party with them when they do well, reward them, meet them where they are at and provide support. I felt like this book accomplishes that.
3. The charts! I didn’t realize how much of a visual learner my son was until I showed him the chart. He LOVES it. We hung them up next to all the potty’s in our house and in his play area. He points at the step that he is on as he goes and loves to review it all on his own.
4. I like that you really don’t need a potty chair. However I had already gotten one and my son loved it, so we started with the potty chair and the conveniently “lost” the potty after a few weeks. It made going to public restrooms etc less stressful because he knows how to go on a big potty no problem.
Alexis
I love that Beth teaches to spend time modeling and teaching the child first about how to use the potty, as it is a process with many steps the child will have to learn in order to complete. It makes so much sense! Other methods I have been taught do not include this step, and I’ve always thought it strange that the instructor is just expecting my child to intuitively know what to do when I wrestle them onto the toilet seat, and that they will supposedly learn when I reward them for going. But they never get the reward and never learn because they don’t know what to do once they’re on the toilet! It eventually turns into a battle and the experience isn’t fun at all for the child or the parent. Many problems we have with our children stem from our expectations being unrealistic for their developmental level. Beth gets it! She is so smart with her recommendations of how to teach a young child these concepts, and I’m looking forward to using her method.
Hypnotoad
Chamber79
With my oldest we tried the whole sit on the potty and wait thing and we just wasted our time. Now it’s time to work with our youngest and this book laid things out so logically. I literally took the teddy bear, put undies on it and showed my daughter the whole process just like the book said and after one time through, she started wanting to do it herself. We definitely still have a ways to go but I was so excited to see her wanting to try all the steps and doing some of them herself.
If you’re potty training right now, save yourself the headaches and the hours of sitting on the side of the tub and read this book!
Janessa
This book is a must-read for parents with little ones they need to potty train. The author provides concrete techniques and tools that are easy to follow. The bathroom chart is an exceptional idea with treats as an incentive to reward the child’s successes.
The idea to use play-based learning is very smart. I like the large teddy bear toy parents can use to demonstrate to the child on how to use the bathroom. The child gets to walk through the process by watching a parent help teddy pee or potty. Having the child involved in the steps on the chart to help the teddy bear pee or potty makes it a memorable game.
The use of quotes from child development psychologists gives the book professional credentials. However, the author’s experience as a mother who potty trained her own children, gives her parental credentials to share.
Finally, the author’s information was presented in a clear and concise way to help the reader remember the overall result is that you want your child to learn how to be responsible for their own hygiene needs. This book would make a great gift, too.
Martha